Women are built to do more! So, they should have more orgasms!

Who doesn't love having an orgasm? Orgasms are one of the best, free, and natural experiences a person can have in their life. Can you remember the last time you had a great orgasm that improved your mood, and may you feel better about the rest of the evening? If you are a woman, you may be reading this passage with a little bit of irritation. As the entire world knows, it's much harder for women to orgasm during sexual intercourse than it is for men.

So, whenever a woman enters into a new sexual relationship, she has to pretty much coach her partner into how to please her, but the man just has to place himself inside her to have an orgasm. All of the extra effort required to orgasm is why many women don't like to give up men who are reliably able to give them an orgasm. They will keep these men around, even if they are bad people. But since so many women have a hard time orgasming, it can be even more difficult or even impossible for these same women to experience multiple orgasms!

But it is possible! So, let's go over how a woman can experience multiple orgasms, either through the caring and dedicated touch of a partner or a wild and crazy night alone.

So how do multiple orgasms happen in the female body?

Learning how to please yourself or a woman into experiencing orgasms multiple times doesn't require a science lesson. There are many women and some men out there who know how to coax out multiple orgasms from a woman's body through technique alone. But it's always good to understand how something works. So, let's learn about what happens when a woman orgasms and what happens when she has multiple orgasms.

What happens during an orgasm?

Proper stimulation of a woman's erogenous zone is what causes a woman to have an orgasm. Some erogenous zones are more effective on a woman's arousal than others, but touching, massaging, licking, blowing, and sucking a combination of these zones will stimulant the sexual center of her body and brain. During sex, the oxytocin in her body increases, which stimulates arousal and helps her body relax. It also causes blood to rush to her genital area, as well as her nipples.

As arousal increases, the temperature of the women's body rises, and the rate of the heartbeat speeds up slightly. When the woman is finally at the peak of stimulation, her pelvic floor will start to contract and flutter quickly, which results in an orgasm. Orgasms can last a short or long time, and the timing depends on a number of factors. After orgasming, the body releases any tension around the genital area. Blood around the genitals will remain in the area for a time. 

What happens during multiple orgasms?

Normally, after an orgasm, the woman doesn't touch herself and allows the blood in her genitals to relax, and the blood return to the rest of her body. After an orgasm, the body usually goes through a refractory period in which physical and mental stimulation are unwanted. If a woman wants to have a second orgasm, she has to listen to her body. If her genitals are still wet after her first orgasm, she is likely to be able to have another orgasm. 

Stimulating the same areas that caused the first orgasm might not be a good idea, as those areas are still sensitive. During the second round of stimulation, her genitals will begin to warm and fill with blood again. Focusing on new areas to stimulate will make a second and third orgasm much more likely. Since the body is already used to stimulation, second and third orgasms are usually less intense than the first one. 

Types of orgasms

Long ago, doctors and sexperts thought there were only two types of orgasms: the male orgasms and the mysterious female orgasm. The same people who thought there were only two types of orgasms believe that the female organism probably did not exist. Thank goodness we no longer live in that time! Now sexologists and doctors have documented over 11 different types of orgasms that a woman may be able to experience. 

The eight types of orgasms

● Vaginal orgasms - less than 15% of all women can have an orgasm through penetrative sex. 

● Clitoral orgasms - for the 85% of women who can't have a vaginal orgasm, they can always rely on stimulating the clitoris to achieve the Big O.

● Anal orgasms

● G-spot orgasms - this area is usually on the bottom of the vaginal canal.

● Blended orgasms - This type of orgasm is every woman's best option to achieving multiple orgasms. If the clitoris is too sensitive, it's time to focus on the G-Spot. 

● Deep penetration orgasm

● The squirting orgasms

● Cervical orgasm

Timings of multiple orgasms

Some women are completely unable to have multiple orgasms back-to-back because their clitorises are much too sensitive, and it can become painful if it is stimulated. But that does not mean that they can't have other types of multiple orgasms. There's another type of orgasm that counts as multiple orgasms. Some women are able to have more than one orgasm throughout a 24 hr period. 

Heterosexual versus homosexual sex

Some people say it is harder to give a woman an orgasm because her genitals and erogenous zones are much more of a mystery to a man than a man's erogenous zones are to a woman. Well, I have the facts and data to call out that bullshit!

One interesting fact that I need to point out is that when a woman enters into a new sexual relationship, she is much less likely to have an orgasm with a man on the first sexual encounter. A groundbreaking study has revealed that a woman in a new heterosexual encounter only has a 6% chance of orgasming! This data combines answers from women who have experienced one-night stands, were part of, or are currently in simple relationships like friends with benefits and long-term partnerships. 

I can't believe that! 6% Just 6%! It's no wonder women don't want to leave the men that can actually give them an orgasm! But what about a woman who enters into a new lesbian or bisexual relationship with a woman? In stark contrast to a new sexual relationship with a man, a woman who has lesbian sex with a new partner is far more likely to have an orgasm. In fact, there's a 94% chance a woman in a new lesbian relationship will have an orgasm on the first sexual encounter. Heterosexual women who masturbate can usually get themselves off more frequently than their male partners can.

Well, what do you know! It seems like the problem isn't with women's bodies at all! The only thing that there is an issue with is the technique and methods on how to please a woman. On the whole, men don't know about the different ways to stimulate a woman's erogenous zones.

How can I please my female partner into having multiple orgasms?

So, what do we know so far? We've established the science behind a woman's orgasm and how her body can have multiple orgasms. We've also discovered that lesbian women, and bisexual women in a relationship with another woman, are much more likely to have multiple orgasms, even during the first sexual encounter, than heterosexual women when they are with a man.

It's time to learn how you can pleasure your female partner into having an orgasm and multiple orgasms. You can also use the following knowledge to pleasure yourself into having orgasms more frequently.

Remember, there are two types of multiple orgasms, the type that can happen one right after the other within a certain time span and the type that can happen throughout the day. Depending on the hormones and bodily functions of yourself or your woman, she might not be able to have multiple orgasms back-to-back. But she can have an orgasm in the morning and then in the evening and night. So be sure to know what type of multiple orgasms you or she is capable of. 

1. Caring is key - Create a safe and relaxing environment. Some women are unable to orgasm if they do not feel comfortable with their partners.

1. An experienced woman is a happy woman - Find a woman who knows her body well. A woman that has had plenty of sexual experience, whether by herself or with a partner, will know how to get herself off. This is why sex with older women is less stressful than with younger women. When you find a woman who is educated on her own body, ask her what you should do to please her. 

1. Listen to her! - When a woman says to continue a certain motion, do exactly that! For some reason, a lot of men like to change whatever motion they are doing in bed when a woman tells them to keep going. Continue doing whatever she asks you to do, and don't change the speed or pressure until told. Only change if she says to do something new, like go faster or use more pressure. Increase pressure, speed, or change angle slightly. Don't change anything too wildly, or the change could throw off her body's momentum. No woman likes to be jackhammered. It even hurts many men who attempt to do it for longer than a couple of seconds.

1. The Blended Orgasm - Stimulate different parts of the female body. Like I said above, a blended orgasm is the best way for a woman to have single and multiple orgasms. Pleasing different parts of the body can be easier with the use of toys and lubricants.

1. All Day Loving - Do not start touching kissing a woman only when it is time for sex. It's important to create an atmosphere of sexual fun and adventure all throughout the day. Many women's sexuality is like a faucet turned into a warm setting. The water comes out cold and then gradually becomes warm. In contrast, men's sexuality is like a light switch. Most men can go from completely unaroused to horny in a couple of minutes. Of course, every person is different, and some people can be like faucets most of the time and then sometimes be like light switches. And some women can definitely have a light switch type of sexuality. You just have to learn about your body and your partner's body.

1. Learn, experiment, and play! - Learn everything you can about the clitoris of the woman you were with or your own clitoris. Every woman's body is different, but most sexual encounters that result in a woman's orgasm tend to follow the same pattern. The clitoris and other erogenous zones around a woman's genitals are not a mystery. There are plenty of books online written by educated sex therapists and sexologists that can provide anyone with plenty of information about the clitoris. If you want multiple orgasms, or you want to go to your partner into giving her multiple orgasms, learn everything you can about the clitoris.

1. Timing is key - Do you not have sex or expect multiple orgasms if a woman is exhausted. Now, maybe thinking that it sounds odd because that can sometimes improve someone's stressed-out, tired mood. But the exhaustion that I am talking about accumulates over months and months of stressful situations, terrible work, now children, and any other stressful life event. If your woman barely has any time for herself because she has so many different obligations, isn't getting a good night's sleep, and isn't eating a healthy diet, she may not have the energy required to have a single orgasm; let alone multiple Os. 

Conclusion

Female pleasure is just as important as male pleasure, and the female orgasm does exist. Women need to learn through their friends, their education, and media, and through society that their sexual needs are important and should not be overlooked. If a woman has an issue with orgasm, she should not have to just power through it. She should be able to find medical help and sexual therapy. Life is too short and way too stressful not to have an orgasm whenever you want. So, buy yourself a new toy and tell your partner to strip naked and get into bed. You and your partner have some learning to do!