How to satisfy a woman orally?
If you want to send your woman to new sexual heights and have her screaming your name to the high heavens, you need to learn how to perform oral sex. Oral sex on a woman isn't hard at all, and practicing this skill is quite fun. Men who do oral are seen as better lovers, more patient men, and have an excellent eye for detail. Many men don't perform oral sex on their girlfriends or wives, so by learning how to satisfy a woman orally, you've already far ahead of most men in terms of sexual prowess.
So we wrote for our readers a quick but practical guide on how to orally pleasure a woman. It is a skill that you have to build up, but it is doable, and I bet she will happily agree to more practice.
How to perform oral on a woman
First, you have to warm her up. For the majority of women out there, they can't just turn themselves on at the drop of a hat and be ready for sex. They need to get into sexual mental space to get in the mood. A man's sexuality is like a lightswitch because he turned on at the flip of a switch. A woman's sexuality is like a pot of water that must be boiled first.
Then, it would be best if you gave her a body massage. It will help relax her muscles and get her into a more intimate mood. Use a warming oil and massage the oil into her skin and muscles. During the massage, talk to her and tell her all of the things you're going to do to her. Sexy talk can help enhance her arousal even higher than just the massage by itself. After massaging her, now you can spread open her legs and place yourself between them.
Massage her thighs by using both of your hands on each leg. Use the strength of your thumbs to massage the deep tissue muscles. Women never have this part of their body touched so that she will become even more excited. When she is telling you that she's ready for you to go down on her, that is when you start. Don't touch her clit until she says she's ready. Many men move to fast, and the woman cannot get in the mood properly, so their orgasms aren't that intense.
Slowly massage her clitoris with your fingers, mouth, and puffs of air.
Once you've found her spot and found a good rhythm that she is enjoying, you have to stay at the same tempo if she says to. For some reason, many men change the way they are massaging their woman, even if she says to continue with what they are doing. Now if she states to go faster or change method, then you do so. But don't change if she doesn't say to.
If you can see that she is getting wetter between her vulva, then that's another sign you are massaging her clitoris the right way. She should feel very slick and well coated with her own lubricant. Don't be alarmed if she's dripping with it. Just dab her vulva with a towel. Do not wipe her!
As the muscles in her legs begin to tighten up, it is then that you'll know she's about to orgasm. There will be other signs too. She could be moaning loudly, grab the sheets with her fists, sweaty a lot, and also breathing heavily. Remember to stay at the same tempo and don't change the rhythm. Once she lets out a loud moan, then you'll know that she is orgasming.
As she orgasms, keep massaging her clitoris until she says stop. Only stop playing with her clitoris when she tells you to stop. When she stops you, go back to stroking her thighs and let her catch her breath.
When she has come back down from her orgasm high, and she has rested, open her legs up again, and repeat. Massage her thighs until she is wet again. Then go down on her. She will be quite excited that you went down on her a second time.
And that's how you pleasure a woman orally the right way!
Note: always wash your hands before you touch a woman's genital. It is very easy for women to get a UTI, so keep your hands clean and trim your fingernails too.
Second note: Don't eat spicy feeling if you're planning on going down on your woman later that night. Even if you thoroughly wash your hands , your tongue can still have spicy sauce on it. If anything spicy comes into contact with the vulva skin, she'll be in such great pain that there will be no time for sex anymore.
Third note: When you're between a woman's legs, you should know where everything is. The part of her lips that are covered by skin in the labia majora and the slick folds are the labia minora. At the top of her vulva, towards the public hair, is the clitoris, and of course, farther down her vulva is the entrance to her vagina.
In conclusion
Sex is an activity that two people can share together. They can learn to pleasure each other and enjoy each other's bodies, or they can be greedy lovers who only use their partner for their pleasure, and that's all. Like using a toy and throwing it away. When a man learns to satisfy a woman orally, he is showing her that her pleasure is just as important as his. Women who have a man like this tended to keep him longer and do more things for him, like cook and help him with his work, and encourage him when he's feeling down. So if you wish to be treated well and treat your partner well, it's in your best interest to be a more giving lover.
