Do you know what a condom is for?
The day the condom was invented was the day the Earth rejoiced. Now lovers all across the world could have sex all day long without worrying about becoming pregnant. It would be a fantastic invention in the world of sex, and second only to the invention of birth control. But some men don't like to use condoms, even though these same men have no interest in becoming a father. Men who don't want to wear condoms are known to shame and trick women or complain to them until they get their way. So in this article, we have one mission: to empower women to deny men sex and to teach men how to use a condom. We will also show men why they need to wear a condom.
Male excuses and how to fight them off
Even though condoms are created to prevent pregnancies and some STDs, men without any common sense don't like using them. The main reason is that it dulls the sensations of their penises going into a woman's vagina; it's not as wet or warm as it would be without the condom. This is a significant pleasure spot for men, so many don't want to wear it. And they have invented several excuses to try and trick a woman into not requiring them to wear it.
- I'm too big. The condom is too small- every sex-ed teacher said that this is the most common excuse. But you should know that the average condom can fit over an entire forearm. It will provide, no matter what size a man is. And if he knows he's a bigger size, why doesn't he buy his own condoms to be prepared in case he finds someone who wants to have sex with him?
- I'm allergic - this one is not too common, but men should know better. If a man is allergic to the vast majority of condoms out there, then he should be prepared and have his own Supply. He knows that it's hard for him to find condoms you can wear, so he had better be prepared.
- I don't have any STDs- that's great. We should be glad that he isn't carrying any STDs in his bloodstream now let's keep it that way. While condoms don't protect against all STDs, wearing a condom is better than no protection at all.
- I don't need a condom because you're on birth control- but what about the STDs! Birth control does not protect against STDs at all. So unless you want a UTI or chlamydia, you better make him wrap it up.
- Note - if a man tries to make you that's a condom oh, he is not acting in your best interest he's acting in his best interest. He wants to have 20 minutes of good sex and leave, and so do you, but you do not want and not a nine-month commitment at the end of it.
Stds and condoms
Even if condoms dull the sensations of sexual intercourse, it still protects women and men from contracting various sexual diseases from their infected partners. So, no matter if you're a man or a woman, wearing a condom is in your best interest. As long as the condom is convering the infected area or sore, the other party engaging in sex with the infected person is 98% protected against contracting chlamydia and gonorrhea and some forms of HIV. However, condoms do not protect against herpes, genital warts, and syphilis, which spread through skin contact. If you're about to engage in sex with an infected person, we highly suggest that you don't go through with the sexual event.
Types of condoms
Nowadays, there are several types of condoms you can choose from that will help you meet your needs for your special occasion. Let's go over the types of condoms available.
- Spermicide condoms are condoms designed to kill sperm
- Latex condoms are the most common condom available in the market. You should not use these if you have a latex allergy
- The lubricated condom is it condom that has a small amount of lube inside the condom too improve sensation and prevent pain and irritation.
- Cushion condoms are condoms meant to provide extra stimulation to a man's penis. The two types of textured condoms are ribbed and studded
- You should know that novelty condoms like glow-in-the-dark socks or condoms with pictures on them approved by the FDA and have a much higher risk for breaking and causing pregnancy or STDs
How to put on a condom
First, a man must become aroused. He has to have a full erection in order to put on a condom. If he is flaccid, the condom will be too big, and it will slide off during intercourse. Once the man is hard, now he must remove the condom from its wrapping gently. Put the condom over the head of the penis and slowly slide the wrapped part down the length of the shaft. Do not unwrap it and then try to slide it on. Roll the condom all the way down, and it is completely unwrapped. Do not reuse a condom or try to put it back on if it comes off. Just get another condom.
In conclusion
Condoms are an important invention in human history. The ability to prevent pregnancy from sex as a power room in the world over when it came to their sexuality and the responsibility is women. Some men don't seem to grasp the burden of pregnancy. That's why we created the first part of this article. To empower women, we must educate them to know the reasoning behind men not wanting to wear condoms. No man wants to get an abortion, and some women are barred from it from their country. Men might wish for better sensation for a 20-minute sexual activity, but if they forget about the condom, they will have an 18-year responsibility!
